Dress code 101: The only things you need to know to interpret a dress code

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Most of us can muster an outfit for a black-tie event but what if black tie is optional? What's the difference between black tie and white tie? And what on earth is cocktail wear?

Here, we cut the jargon and interpret the most common dress codes for you. Remember to put your own spin on things – no host wants you to feel uncomfortable or as if you're not dressed like yourself. 

 

Black tie

Gents – This is perhaps the easiest dress code for men to interpret: a bow tie and dinner jacket or tuxedo.

Ladies – Dress according to what you expect your host to wear. Dresses and heels are the norm, floor length or midi dresses being more appropriate.

White tie

Gents – Another easy one for you… Wear a black, single breasted tailcoat with lapels that are shorter at the front than a morning coat. Black trousers with two lines of braids down outside leg, a white cotton shirt, white waistcoat, white bowtie and lace up shoes.

Ladies – Go for it in a full-length evening gown and feel free to set it off with big, sparkly jewellery! 

Lounge suits

Gents – This implies business dress, so usually a suit and tie.

Ladies – You have more freedom here, anything smart is encouraged but you can dress according to your personal style.

Smart Casual

Gents – No tie required, but you can elevate your casual go-to look with a blazer or a jacket.

Ladies – A dressier version of your most casual look. Pair jeans with a blazer and statement earrings, for example. If you’re on the fence about what to wear, it’s always worth making an effort rather than not.

Business casual

Gents – You'll be expected to wear a suit, but no tie.

Ladies – For women it's all about the fabric. You'd wear linen in the boardroom but not jeans – so avoid denim and trainers and look for a silky blouse, wide-legged trousers, fun skirt or loose dress.

Black tie optional

Gents – You have the option of a dinner jacket/tuxedo and bow tie OR a dark suit and tie.

Ladies – Go formal, but not Oscars attire! Think longer hemlines – but not longer slits.

Morning dress

Gents – Wear a black or grey morning coat, single breasted with tails, worn with grey or black striped trousers.

Ladies – Think smart and chic. You're encouraged to cover your shoulders but hats are not always required. Headwear is a perfect way to put your personal stamp on this – from a delicate feathered fascinator to a statement boater.

Cocktail

Gents – Collars for men – but you can interpret that as you wish, either a collar and tie, a shirt and jacket, or even a t-shirt under a cocktail suit.

Ladies - Think fun and ready to party: floaty dresses, jumpsuits, short dresses that you might not have occasion to wear regularly!

Business Formal

Gents – As you'd expect, a suit and tie.

Ladies – Choose a tailored dress, jumpsuit or suit – business appropriate but dressed-up!

 
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